Celebrating 85 Years of Saying Yes

Today I turn 85. As I reflect on this number, I’m reminded of something I wrote in my book: “I refuse to let a number on my birthday card determine the life I am going to live.”
And what a life it continues to be! My brain is as active as ever, I’m working on several exciting projects I can’t wait to share, and I wake up each morning eager to see what new opportunities the day might bring. This isn’t the story society expects from someone my age, but I’ve never been one to follow expectations.
From GCHQ to Corporate Success
My career journey began in extraordinary circumstances at GCHQ, where I learned precision, discretion, and the importance of seeing patterns others might miss, skills that proved invaluable in the corporate world.
Moving into retail management, I discovered my talent for turning around challenging situations. Whether it was a struggling team, a failing project, or a complex organisational restructure, I approached each challenge with what I now call my ‘flashpoint transformation’ methodology. The key? Never shy away from difficult conversations or uncomfortable truths.
The Art of Reinvention
At 50, when many assume career trajectories are set in stone, I made what others called a risky decision, I left corporate security to found Prime Objectives. Seven months of uncertainty followed before referrals began flowing from satisfied clients. That leap taught me to trust intuition over conventional wisdom.
Then, at 84, life offered another twist: two five-year modelling contracts. While my peers settled into quiet retirement, I stepped onto photoshoots and into a world I’d never imagined. The experience was featured in The Telegraph and continues to challenge everything society believes about age and beauty.
Six Life Rules That Work
Looking back on this journey, from military daughter to GCHQ operative, from corporate executive to entrepreneur, from facilitator to author to model, several key insights emerge:
Grab new opportunities, even when they scare you. The most rewarding paths often begin with butterflies in your stomach.
Reframe setbacks as learning opportunities. Every ‘failure’ in my life has led to something better, teaching me skills I didn’t know I needed.
Love what you do. Give it everything. Passion is the fuel that sustains you through challenges.
Maintain excellence in everything. Standards don’t decline with age, experience should improve them.
Keep up good connections. The endorsements I receive span decades and continents, testament to relationships built on trust and respect.
Embrace new challenges. Whether navigating Moscow to Siberia with three words of Russian (as I once did) or stepping in front of cameras at 84, growth happens at the edge of your comfort zone.
Success Has No Expiry Date
I’m not alone in believing age is just a number:
- Harry Bernstein published his first novel at 96.
- Yuichiro Miura climbed Mount Everest at 80.
- Martha Stewart graced Sports Illustrated’s cover at 81.
- Captain Tom Moore raised £38 million for the NHS at 99.
- Barbara Hillary reached both poles, North at 75, South at 79.
- Gladys Burrill entered the Guinness World Records as the oldest woman to complete a marathon at 92.
- And Ida Keeling ran the 100 metres race at age 100.
Martha Stewart describes a ‘super ager’ as productive, lively, and creative well beyond the traditional retirement age of 65.Martha Stewart describes a ‘super ager’ as productive, lively, and creative well beyond the traditional retirement age of 65.
Looking Forward
I don’t look back at the past, you can’t change it anyway. I look to the future with joy and excitement. Every day is a new beginning.
At 85, I’m not slowing down; I’m evolving. I’m not retreating; I’m exploring new territories. The projects I’m working on now are some of the most exciting of my career.
My message to you, regardless of age: your story isn’t finished. Your potential isn’t diminished by the years you’ve lived, it’s enriched by them. The wisdom and experience you’ve gained aren’t consolation prizes; they’re your competitive advantages.
Here’s to 85 years of saying yes to life’s adventures. Here’s to whatever comes next, because maybe the best chapters are still being written.
At 85, I’m not approaching an endpoint; I’m continuing a journey of discovery, creation, and joy.